Long time ago, in a land and a community far away people lived in a most peculiar way...they carried their hearts around in there hands. When ever they greeted one another, they would show and share their hearts. It's how they got to know each other...it's what shaped the " heart " of the community.
One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.
For a long time people were embarrassed, ashamed and humiliated by the condition of their hearts. So much so, that when ever they greeted one another they would hide them behind their backs.
Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said "Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine." The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were missing.
The people stared - how can he say his heart is more beautiful, they thought? The young man looked at the old man's heart and saw its state and laughed. "You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old man, "Yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared. Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges -- giving love is taking a chance.
Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges. The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old man's heart flowed into his. They embraced and walked away side by side.
The community watching this, suddenly, again began showing, and giving their hearts to one another.
The real " heart " of community is not perfect...but broken. But in the giving, the taking, the love...there is mending, healing...and the reality that the " heart " of community is incomplete unless my heart is touched by, and I touch all the other hearts in the community.
Author unknown, this was hand written in one of my journals from many years ago...most have likely heard it before, but it is a great reminder.
Beautiful. It reminds me of the Skin Horse in the story of the Velveteen Rabbit. The question, then, was "What makes us real?" The answer was something along the lines of, "Having the fur loved off of your skin."
Posted by: Randy Hein | April 09, 2008 at 10:22 AM